How deeply you need to shield your kink persona from the public eye is an entirely personal thing. It keeps your personal (vanilla) feed nice and clean and prevents any unintended leakage from one persona to the other. This post is family-friendly, this post is not. Usually, that’s done by holding two accounts on the site and switching back and forth.
That’s usually a scene name, used on social media and at events, and perhaps a separate email account.įor many of us, Fetlife is the only source of “kinky social media” that we need, but quite a lot of people also spill over into accounts on blogging platforms, Instagram, Twitter and Facebook. It’s the norm in the kink community to maintain an identity specifically for “the scene”.